FACING A WOMAN IS FACING A MIRROR

The woman is the earth. You are rooted in woman. You come out of the womb. You come out of it -- and, in one way, one never comes out of it. Something remains rooted. Hence so much attraction to women.

In fact the sexual penetration is nothing but a search again for the womb. Now you cannot go into the womb totally so you penetrate sexually. It is a search for the womb, a search for the roots.

Woman brings reality and man lives alone in dreams. A woman comes and shatters all dreams. She is very earthy, very real. Man is a dreamer, woman is very realistic, so she will pull you down to the earth.

Many times you will feel that your wings have been cut. I know you will be angry but still I am saying that it will be of great value to you, of immense value. Otherwise you will remain a child.

UNLESS A MAN IS COMMITED TO A WOMAN HE NEVER BECOMES ADULT; HE REMAINS A CHILD.

Then he can go on looking at women like mother-figures, full of milk and juicy, but he is never adult. The maturity comes when you start encountering a woman. She really creates spaces of which you are not aware. She will bring to the surface your own faces which will never come by themselves.

Facing a woman is facing a mirror.

She will reveal many ugly faces to you, but they are your faces and they have to be absorbed, synthesised with your total being. They have to fall into an organic unity. They should not remain like islands hanging around you. They should become part of the continent. Then you will be more of one piece, more together.

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